| INTRODUCTION | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: Hi everyone and welcome back to HungarianPod101.com. This is Lower Beginner, season 1, lesson 16, Let’s Dispense with the Hungarian Formalities. I’m Simone. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: And I’m Csaba. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: In this lesson you're going to learn how to ask someone if they’d like to switch to the informal language. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: The conversation takes place at Anne’s workplace. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: And it’s between Anne and Mr. Szabó, her boss. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: This is a special lesson. They start formal and then change into informal. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: Ok, let’s listen to the conversation. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | DIALOGUE | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Anne:Jó reggelt kívánok! | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Szabó úr:Üdvözlöm! Anne, már egy éve itt van, igaz? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Anne:Igen. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Szabó úr:Tegeződjünk. Megengedi? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Anne:Igen, köszönöm. Szervusz. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Szabó úr:Szervusz. Majd a pertut is megisszuk. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Let's listen to the conversation one time slowly. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Anne:Jó reggelt kívánok! | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Szabó úr:Üdvözlöm! Anne, már egy éve itt van, igaz? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Anne:Igen. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Szabó úr:Tegeződjünk. Megengedi? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Anne:Igen, köszönöm. Szervusz. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Szabó úr:Szervusz. Majd a pertut is megisszuk. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Let's listen to the conversation with the English translation. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
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                                        ANNE:
                                        Jó reggelt kívánok!                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        ANNE:
                                        Good morning!                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        SZABÓ ÚR:
                                        Üdvözlöm! Anne, már egy éve itt van, igaz?                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        MR. SZABÓ:
                                        Greetings! Anne, you've been here a year, right?                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        ANNE:
                                        Igen.                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        ANNE:
                                        Yes.                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        SZABÓ ÚR:
                                        Tegeződjünk. Megengedi?                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        MR. SZABÓ:
                                        Let's tegez. May I?                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        ANNE:
                                        Igen, köszönöm. Szervusz.                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        ANNE:
                                        Yes, thank you. Hi.                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        SZABÓ ÚR:
                                        Szervusz. Majd a pertut is megisszuk.                                     | 
                                
                                                                
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                                        MR. SZABÓ:
                                        Hi. We'll drink to that later.                                     | 
                                
                                                                
                                                                            | POST CONVERSATION BANTER | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: All right, so what exactly is going on here? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Mr. Szabó is asking for Anne’s permission to use informal language. Normally, it is the older or higher-ranking person at the workplace who can initiate that. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: So Mr. Szabó is asking for permission... | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Because he is polite and Anne is a woman. It is polite to ask, even if you’re above the other person in age and rank. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: And then Anne agrees and thanks him. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Yes. Whenever you are offered to use the informal language, it is polite to thank the other person. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: I see. Can I initiate it too? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Sure. Teachers and other people who interact with others do that all the time. The age difference doesn’t matter there because everyone recognizes the need for simpler language in a classroom or similar environment. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: OK, I see. Let's take a look at the vocabulary for this lesson. The first word we shall see is? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Év. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Year. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Év. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Év. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Next? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Igaz. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | True. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Igaz. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Igaz. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Next? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Tegez. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | To use the informal language. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Te-gez. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Tegez. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Next? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Megenged. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Allow. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Meg-en-ged. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Megenged. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Next? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Szervusz. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Hi, formal. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Szervusz. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Szervusz. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Next? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Majd. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Will, then. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Majd. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Majd. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Next? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Pertu. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | A drink. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Pertu. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Pertu. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Next? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Megiszik. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Drink. Drink up. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Megiszik. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Megiszik. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | And last? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Üdvözlöm. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Greetings. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Üd-vöz-löm. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Üdvözlöm. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | KEY VOCAB AND PHRASES | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: All right, what is the first thing we'll discuss from this lesson? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: First, a word from the last sentence: majd. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: "Will" or "then." | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Majd. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: This word means that whatever I say is going to happen in the future. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: For example: Majd hívlak! | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: "I'll call you." Repeat again. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Majd hívlak. The second word is hívlak, which means "I call you." Majd just adds the future element to the sentence. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: All right, and what else? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: We had the sentence: már egy éve itt van. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: "You have been here for a year." It is still formal here, by the way. Can we hear it again? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Már egy éve itt van. Egy éve is "for a year." These sentences are present tense in Hungarian, since of course there is no present perfect. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: How do you say: "I haven’t eaten for a day." | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Egy napja nem eszem. Egy napja is "for a day." | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: Actually, you can check a lot more of these time words in our lesson notes, right? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Oh yes, that's right. All the ready-made conjugated time words are there with examples. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: Alright, and on to the grammar. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | GRAMMAR POINT | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: In this lesson, we're going to talk about how to ask if it's okay to switch to informal language in Hungarian. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Yes. Not only will there be examples, but also a guide on politeness - when and how to use them. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: Where do we start? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: With Mr. Szabó's sentence: Tegeződjünk. Megengedi? The first half is the verb tegezni, or "to use the informal language with someone." In the dialogue, it is already conjugated first-person plural and imperative. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: Repeat again. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Tegeződjünk. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: When do I say this? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: You only utter this if you are older and you rank higher at a workplace. See, even Mr. Szabó added megengedi? or "may I/do you allow?" | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: I see. So this may not work all the time. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: The question is a little bit more polite. Tegeződhetünk? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: "Can we use the informal tegez with each other?" | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Tegeződhetünk? Starting with "can we" instead of "let's" makes this more polite. Teachers very often start a course saying this. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: All right, what else do we have? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Tegezz nyugodtan! | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: "You can use the informal tegez with me." | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Tegezz nyugodtan! This is directed towards younger people, maybe teens, or if the age difference is big. The elderly might say this one. Literally: "I allow you to tegez me." | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: And then I thank them. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Very good manners, yes. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: What if I don't want them to tegez? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Honestly, I've never heard an offer refused in my life. On the other hand, in heated arguments on the train or somewhere public, you may hear: Ne tegezzen! | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: "Don't tegez me!" | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Ne tegezzen! This really is for arguments only. People also say ne tegezz, which means the same, ironically in the informal language. This is more of a joke, really. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: Say it one more time. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Ne tegezz. If you ever get in an argument with a Hungarian friend, throw this in for comedic purposes. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: Ok, thanks for the tip! | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Well, we've had words, expressions, and culture as well. One last thing for now. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: What's that? | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: I just want to remind everyone that the conjugation for the formal language is the same as the third-person conjugation. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Simone: Which means "formal you" equals "he, she or it" | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Right. Keep this in mind when you are going through the conjugation tables. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            
                                            Outro
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                                                                            | Simone: OK, that's it for this lesson. Make sure you check the lesson notes and we'll see you next time. | 
                                                                    
                                                                
                                                                            | Csaba: Sziasztok. | 
                                                                    
                                                        
                     
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